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The way we did it was: we made all the big decisions before we told anyone, I suggest you try to make as many decisions when the 2 of you are alone that way noone else is there to put in their .02 until after you have heard each others opinions.
My SIL went as far as to tell my hubby (in front of his whole family) that when I asked for his opinion what I really wanted was what his mom's opinion was. I looked her dead in the face & said "No, when I ask his opinion, I want HIS opinion. If I want his mom's opinion, I'll just ask her myself." Boy was she shocked, but I'm just blunt like that.
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Katy
Are we SURE there are actually a whole 24 hours in a day? It sure seems like there are less than that. 
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