Question ladies

[HomeGirl21]

Hi!

I am going through my second break-up right now. I am still young, have my entire life ahead of me and I definately know that I don't need a guy to be happy. I'm just curious how many times you all had to go through this kind of thing before you found the one? It sucks! lol! :)

[rdy2rac with]

I wasn't a big dater (had more fun in groups) but hubby was my second boyfriend longer than a month. We hit it off easily because we were friends (he was in the group I always did stuff with) & had known each other our whole lives.

You have the right idea, just take your time even if you find another guy. We dated for 6 years before getting engaged.

PS welcome to the board.

[Sexy Strawberry]

Hello and welcome!!!

I am glad you are so positive about it! That's just great! I am 20 and have a boyfriend, we will have been together for a year in only 7 days! Before him I was never in love, I had two relationships but they weren't so formal really so when we broke up it was no problem! Now I am in love :heart: for real...

Enjoy it while you're single ;), you'll find someone soon for sure... enjoy your freedom!

[Csara]

Sorry to hijack the thread, but Maria - WOW!! I can't believe it's already been a year!!! Glad everything is going so well. :)

[Sydneyp]

1 - two year
1- five year
2 short term but utterly in love (around 6 months +/-)
a ton of flings (so much fun I had)
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Been with my current guy for 5 years. I don't believe in "the one." I'm happy. My advice is to enjoy your current status - revel in the pain, the sadness, the lonliness - feel it all completely - when the time comes to go forward, ejoy that as much. I don't know how old you are, but my parents got together at 15 and married at 19 - my grandma was married for 30 years, widowed for 50 (yah, she was old.) I'm 33 and if I had to live the next 40 years without a permanent mate, I'd be okay. There's so much more than 'in love' in life - but it's hard to see that before 28 or so - minimum. my $.02.

[kefovet]

Hey Hey.
Everyone seems to go through alot of guys before they find the right one, but i was different. I never could finda boyfriend, i wasnt a popular girl, and always got turned down by all the guys that I liked. But then one day when I was in the first year of high school, i met someone, and right away we both falled for each other. and 4 years later we are still holding strong. and moving out with each other in a couple of months when Im out of school. SO im my opinion, when you find the right guy, you'll know. and it'll work out just fine.

~Candice~

[yonksgirl]

I kissed a lot of frogs to find my husband! I would not change that for the world because going through all of that, it made me appreciate B when I found him. (or should I say he found me! LOL!)

Hang in there girl and don't just settle for any guy, the right one is out there!
Take care!

[Sexy Strawberry]

Sorry to hijack the thread, but Maria - WOW!! I can't believe it's already been a year!!! Glad everything is going so well. :)

Thanks Csara!!! My anniversary was on 22nd, and he's coming to visit me in 13 days!!! I'm so happy about it, I haven't seen him for a month and a half now... so I can't wait!

Sorry for hijacking the thread too... :)

[HomeGirl21]

Hang in there girl and don't just settle for any guy, the right one is out there!

Take care!

Thanks! I appreciate your kindness. I know he is out there somewhere, and we will find each other one day. Right now I am just enjoying my friends. I'm excited because I recently got in touch again with a friend I hadn't seen in two years! :) I had lunch with her the other day, and I am going to visit her tomorrow.

Have a great day everyone, it is bEAUtiful here! :)

[HomeGirl21]

We hit it off easily because we were friends.



I was the first girlfriend for both my exes. It was different for me with the second guy because I didn't want to rush into things. I wanted to be friends first and he wanted a relationship (because I was his first girlfriend, of course!) There were communication issues because he was always afraid of hurting my feelings. With the mixture of the two, we never REALLY got to know each other. So now, in the end we aren't friends and we are both moving on.

But it's ok! As I said before the right guy is out there for me!

:elephant:...so cute!

[MissRyry]

Don't worry! Each relationship you go through will teach you something about yourself. Let's see I'm on my third husband . . . and if you count boyfriends too -- I've been in 7 relationships. Each of them teaching me something different about men and myself as well. Most of the time I did the breaking up --- but one time I was broken up with and it hurt. :( Although, it's the best thing because I wouldn't have met my soulmate (my current husband). I believe that there's always a better one around the corner. ;)

>'.'<

[shan]

:wave: Hi! Welcome! I went through two before I met my husband. One was sweet, and one was a lying, cheating, asshole that I would have preferred to skip. But everyone has their mistakes and that was mine! Of course I met my husband and 10 mths later we were married :D Well will be married for four years March 30th and together for five years in May. It is something you will just know. Good luck to you and don't ever listen when people tell you how to behave in your relationship!