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HeavenLeigh
01-18-2007, 08:01 PM
would you do it all over again? Same guy/gal, same date, place, etc...???
Turtleheadfred
01-18-2007, 09:28 PM
Absolutely - no doubt about it. He's the ONLY one. If for any reason I wasn't with him... I'd never remarry.
heather6773
01-19-2007, 05:14 AM
Absolutely - no doubt about it. He's the ONLY one. If for any reason I wasn't with him... I'd never remarry.
ditto!!!:inlove: The only thing I would change is have a professional photographer instead of the "family friend" who was studying photography:rolleyes: But the man NEVER...he's my Sweetie:)
Sexy Strawberry
01-19-2007, 06:17 AM
How sweet... I hope I find someone someday with whom I can be so happy as you are, even after getting married...
suzieq728
01-19-2007, 06:28 AM
We are not married, but we have been together forever. We have been living together forever also. We have been threw some pretty bad times together, and a few very good times too. We have watched our children, and now grandchildren grow, make mistakes, laugh and cry together.
Would I change anything, yeah I would have tried to be more patient with him instead of going off the deep end at times. But be with another man, ? Nah, we were made for one another, and we know it too:inlove: .
We will be getting married next year, and I really hope nothing ever changes.
Csara
01-19-2007, 06:29 AM
would you do it all over again? Same guy/gal, same date, place, etc...???
DEFINITELY, definitely, and definitely!
Like Heather, the only thing I would have changed is the photographer. We did have a pro, but he totally ripped us off and took lousy pictures! Thank goodness I have the most warm and wonderful memories of my wedding day, but amazing pictures to show for it would have been REALLY nice!!!
bjlong1
01-19-2007, 06:41 AM
Oh for sure. I know without a doubt I am married to the man that was meant to be my husband. As far as the wedding, I loved it! Everything was perfect! Sometimes I cringe at the thought of the cost of it all, but I figure I am only going to get to be a princess one day in my life so it was worth it in the end. :)
meliz
01-19-2007, 08:55 AM
Absolutely. I can't imagine being married to another man who is more compatible and who I could possibly love and respect more. We are two geek peas in a pod.
The wedding day? Yes, I would do it again, in the exact same way. I know I wouldn't get so stressed about it tho; at the time it seemed soooo important, as if flowers were a life or death matter. Now I see I was maybe a titch highstrung. :) It was a great day which, most importantly (actually the only important thing), brought together 150 of our family and friends for a great party. At the time, I was wishing we could have afforded a fancier wedding (we paid for it ourselves, on a grad student budget), but now I am soooo glad we didn't break the bank and that we pulled off a great day on the cheap ($5000 all in, dress included!). It was a day that was definitely "us".
MissRyry
01-19-2007, 10:27 AM
Yes, I would marry the same wonderful man and do everything the same way. :) We always look on our wedding with fondness. Can't believe it will be FIVE years this November!
rdy2rac with
01-19-2007, 09:21 PM
Heck No! I'd run the toher way!
I'm just kidding, I love my man & am extremely glad that we were friends so long before we got together as a couple. I believe that we "found" each other right when we were supposed to (even though we broke up for a month before we were together for a year).
HeavenLeigh
01-20-2007, 11:46 AM
:) I'm so glad everyone feels that way. Everyone I know personally says "hell no" :lol: Sad but funny.
My marriage to my ex H.....oh but hell no....but had I done anything differently I would never had my son. I would definately go thru all the horror again for Darek.....but the thought makes me ill.
lioness57
01-22-2007, 07:03 AM
If I had to do it all over again, I definitely would get married, but not to the guys I married. I was married once before and it was a disaster. I thought the second time around would be better, but it has only gotten worse as time has gone by. I have a great guy now and I wish I could have met him way back when. My advice? Don't jump into marriage. Make sure you have the right person for you.
HeavenLeigh
01-22-2007, 07:29 AM
I second that motion Lioness :D
scully
01-24-2007, 02:59 PM
The only thing I would change is my maid of honor. My cousin and I were practically joined at the hip before I moved to the states and since she also knew my hubby from the online chat room we frequented she was the perfect choice. For some reason though she has barely spoken a word to me since I became pregnant with my daughter 4 years ago.
The man was made for me though and I wouldnt trade him for anything.
nicolef888
01-25-2007, 09:14 AM
I wouldn't change a thing. My husband is the best! He is such a caring, wonderful and loving man who thinks of his family before his own needs. He is also an incredible dad. We had the perfect wedding-I wouldn't change a thing!
ParagonEos
01-26-2007, 11:38 PM
I've only been married onced and My X Husband is a complete asshole, but I would do it again in a minute if it meant not having my boys. If I could go back and know what I know now, I would just sleep with him on those few nights to get prego and walk away :rolleyes:
The man I have now has to put up with me, not the other way around, and I think he's pretty good at it :thumb2:
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