Dating

[rach]

What are your thoughts? I hated dating I'm so glad I'm getting married, never having to go on a first date again. YAH!!!!

xxxxRach :p :p

[HeavenLeigh]

I'm rather enjoying myself:D. This isn't the life of my choice. I would rather be settled down with Mr. Right and enjoying life as a couple again, but that's just obviously not in the cards for me right now. I love meeting new ppl and getting out, being wild, and trying diffent thngs....but get so upset when I meet a new guy and he's either a weirdo or just wants sex. Not that there's something wrong with sex.....but I'm a very spiteful person and enjoy a chase. So I don't like guys that are easy to get and just acts like they want one thing. When they act like that....even if I want them....I brush them off just out of spite.

[rach]

Good for you free and single and living it up go girl. Maybe because I've been with Jase for 2 years and am getting married, that I hate dating.

xxxxRach

[suzieq728]

Well I for one am not into all this dating. I dont much like being alone either, but, when I weigh the two, I would much rather be alone then be with somebody who didnt make me feel good about myself...;)

[rach]

Originally posted by suzieq728
Well I for one am not into all this dating. I dont much like being alone either, but, when I weigh the two, I would much rather be alone then be with somebody who didnt make me feel good about myself...;)

Too true.

xxxxRach

[heiny]

I have very differing oppinons on this subject!!! I only dated 2 guys before I met Dev, and now really wish I would have experienced more of the world before I settled down! Don't get me wrong I love Dev to death, but sometimes wish I had not gotten married so soon!

[suzieq728]

Amy,
I do know that feeling. I went threw that with my first husband.
That is why I am always telling my daughter, play the field a bit, but, she knows everything, well at least she thinks she does lol..;)

[Margarita]

What's dating? I had one "boyfriend" before I met my husband, and that doesn't really count. I met him while on my senior trip to Mexico, and we spent 2 days (days *only*, mind you) together, talked on the phone every week for a while, then it dwindled off, we were supposed to meet when my family went to San Antonio on vacation, and he never showed up without any explanation. Sorry for the run-on!

So, my husband is the only guy I've ever dated. It sucked in high school, but I'm over it. Their loss! :p

[Csara]

I've dated.........not too much, but not too little either. It was fun, I enjoyed it for the most part while it lasted. Then I met my husband. Dating was never so much fun in my life. Now we are married. We can still date eachother or not, it doesn't matter. What we have is the best thing I've ever had and I wouldn't change it for anything.

[rach]

I know I hate but I look at my sister, her husband was her first boyfriend, her first everything but sometimes she says stuff about wanting more and is this as good as it gets I think she should have dated more before she settled down.

[Csara]

In your sister's case, it does seem like maybe she should have dated around a bit before settling down. When you find the one you are meant to be with, you will not wonder what things "might have been" or "do things get better?" regardless of how many people you have or have not dated in the past. Curiousity is one thing, but to truelly, honestly have doubts and think that there might be something better out there is not how it should be. That's unfortunate for your sister, but hopefully it will pass and she will realize that she made the right decision to marry her husband.

[rach]

I think they will last because he worships the ground she walks on, I just think she wishes she was more experienced for him

[Csara]

Well, that's a good thing, but let's just hope she realizes how lucky she is and starts worshipping the ground he walks on. Love and marriage is a 2-way street, but I know you already know that. :D

[rach]

She does worship his ground, it's just i think she thinks she's not good enough :sex: get the picture

[suzieq728]

Well ladies, I am totally free once again!!! :rolleyes:
About a week ago, Doug called me and said he wanted to talk, I jumped at the chance to talk, cause I was going threw that crap with my sister. So I go over to his place, and he says, he is ready to move on, that this relationship is not going to work out ! Well, thats fine by me, but I have to admit I was shocked. :eek:
Here I was thinking that we were going to try to work this all out, and all the while he knew it could not be done. Anyway, so I just say ok, and I get up to leave, he asked me if I had anything to say, I thought about a few things to say, but I knew if I opened my big mouth, I wouldnt be able to stop it. So I said no, and left. And thats that!
At first like I said, I was totally shocked. Now the more I think about it, I am glad that it all happened this way. He saved me from making a huge mistake.

[Csara]

Wow Suzie! You have been through a lot and you are such a trooper. I'm glad that you sound ok, I just hope that you really are. If you need to talk, you know where to come. We all love you here!! :D

[suzieq728]

Thank you Csara,
You guys dont even know it, but your all the reason why I am ok with the situation. I know that it will all be ok, and I do feel good about the whole thing.
As my Mother used to say, "This too shall pass". and it will.. ;)

[Trixie]

I like dating. I would like to settle down in the not too far future but I like being single right now too.

[HeavenLeigh]

OMG!!! Suzie gal! I'm so sorry to hear about your happenings. I'm glad that you're okay with it. True dat on "this too shall pass".....It will gurl-friend. You go with your bad self, hold your head up high, and even if you're dying on the inside never give Doug the pleasure of seeing you hurt. Men, men, men, men.....I've got an idea. You sweet talk Doug and I'll sweet talk Shawn into a "weekend getaway". There we'll meet. You grab Doug's head and I'll grab Shawns. Then we'll just bang their silly little heads together, leave them dazed, confused, and in pain (just the way they left us). Then we'll walk out and hottie chase, drink, hottie chase some more, and drink some more:D
In all seriousness (is that even a real word?) anywho....you're a strong chick with a good heart. You're one of the few and far between in this world and you will find somebody that will appreciate that and love you. We all love you!!!

[Mel-icious]

Suze, you deserve better! Your mom is right "this to shall pass", on to bigger and better things .....:eyebrow:

[suzieq728]

Thanks Girls...
It only bothers me at night, and even then just for a few, cause Brittany takes my mind off of a lot of things. But I said it before and I'll say it again, if not for this board, and you guys, I dont think I would have had the strength to walk away like I did..
;) Thanks guys, and I love all of you!!

BTW, Melissa, I love your sig line, for 2 days I have been trying to figure it out, my daughter is laughing her ass off at me..

[stacyl]

I thoroughly enjoyed dating. Through high school I felt like the one who didn't date much...but getting into college I found that wasn't the case (just from talking to other people and thinking about the way my life actually was, not the way it felt). I'm so happy for the good and bad that I went through with the dating pool. Now at least 7-8 boyfriends (and way too many dates to count) later, I've married my soulmate! It was funny, everytime I came out of a relationship I would feel invigorated heading out to the clubs and bars again. Getting attention and enjoying it! In fact, if it hadn't been for the last horrible relationship I wouldn't have picked up and found a job in a completely different state. And if I hadn't done that I wouldn't have met my husband!

I do have to laugh though - I told my husband I can no longer use men to get free drinks or work my way through a line up to the bar. He laughed back and said sure I could...as long as he could put his order in before I went (referring to getting up to the bar or free drinks!)

I also noticed that all of a sudden I don't get carded anymore....seems that the wedding ring either tells the bouncers not to worry about it or they don't need to know my name anymore......

[Trixie]

Still dating.......:rolleyes: