Husbands

[Life201]

My husband was the first person who truly taught me what love was about. He was the first who could make me laugh through my tears and he always made my heart melt with just a look. He still does.

But I get so caught up in day to day life, work, being a mommy, taking care of the home, making dinner, the dog, the yard, and everything else that goes along with being a responsible adult/ wife/ mother/ etc, I don’t take care of my husband like I used to when we didn’t share all the duties and obligations we now have.

I love my husband with all my heart and I don’t always show him and let him know what he means to me, how much I love him and how much I need him.

He’s the best father I’ve ever known, and he treats me as good as gold. He loves to play and laugh and joke around, and I’m not always as playful and I’m not as kind as I could be.

I know we all lose some of that regard for each other, but I do love him and respect him and he means the world to me. I love to roll over in the night and curl up against his body – we’ve always fit so well together – and kiss his back where his skin is so soft and feel his warm body against mine, with my arm wrapped all the way around his body. Sometimes he even wakes up, briefly, enough to mumble or to hold my hand in his. That’s a little piece of Heaven.

What I often forget is that every day, every look, every moment with him is a piece of Heaven and a blessing and I need to remember that much more often. I’m very lucky to have such a wonderful man in my life.

[lovebug]

That is just beautiful! It is so great to see two people that care so much about each other. You sound so happy! There needs to more of it in the world! :)

[rdy2rac with]

I like to text Robert's pager every now & then when he's at work. He works midnights so we don't always get to spend much time together (usually 2-3 hours a night on weekdays). I usaully just text "I love you". Or I page him w/the numbers 143 as in the number of letters in each word for "I (1) love (4) you (3)". He taught me that. :cool: It's just something to tell him I'm thinking about him.

[nana]

I am so glad to hear that! Love is a grand thing! Throught the routine of our daily lives it is easy to take to one you care about the most for granted. Stepping back a taking a look at our relationships makes us appreciate the simplier things in life. :)

[luv2cook]

Oh my gosh, am I looking in a mirror? We are so alike! How long have you and your hubby been together? What are the ages of your children? Please reply, cuz I can relate! I'm a stay-at-home mom of 3, appreciating my husband's hard work to allow me to be at home full time. Plus I babysit. God bless you. Please reply!

[pikachu0519]

My hubby and I don't have any children yet (we'll be starting to try in September:clap: ), but even still, there are times when I feel the same way. We're so busy rushing here and there, doing this and that, and sometimes we forget to just stop...breathe...and love eachother out loud. Know what I mean? Sometimes I'll wake up in the middle of the night and just look at him and think to myself how beautiful he is, and how lucky I am to love him, and have him love me back just as much. I send him ecards every once in a while just to tell him that I know how lucky I am to have him and that I love him with every ounce of my being. But there
are times when you have little spats, you make up, you do the daily grind, and your love for one another becomes "a given". I try my best not to do that with Michael, and/or my family. I just lost my Grandmother at the end of March and then lost my Aunt a week ago. She had seven kids. We don't see them very often, but I'm probably closer to them, than to my mom's side of the family who we see on a more regular basis. In talking with her sons after the funeral, we made an agreement that this time, we wouldn't be "too busy" to get together, or to pick up the phone a little more often. Life is just way too short, and way too unpredictable. Regret on the other hand, seems to live on forever.

[Life201]

I have a 2 1/2 year old little boy and have been married almost 4 years.

[Ellyanne777]

I just wanted to say that there aren't enough of these kinds of threads around here...thanks that really made me smile. I think we all rave about our men in other threads and areas but you hit the nail on the head....perfect

[Life201]

I had been really down for quite some time and he showed up at my office on Thursday with this enormous flower arrangement and just put on the card how much he loves me and wants me to smile and cheer up.

[rdy2rac with]

My hubby was telling me that they were laughing at him at work alst week. He said they were jsut sitting around & all the sudden he yells "My anniversary is Wednesday". They were like WTF? & he repeated that his anniversary was on Wednesday. They all laughed at him & said OK.

I talked to him today & he asked what I was doing for lunch tomorrow. I told him I didn't know probably just bring some soup or something. He says that he thought maybe I'd like to have him lunch. By now I figured out what he was getting at & told him that our anniversary was today (Tuesday) not tomorrow. Then BTW, Happy Anniversary. he says I thought it was Wed for some reason & I told him no its th 29th not the 30th. He's such a cutey sometimes.