confused

[russo134351]

I met a woman and we got along really good, I asked her out and she said she isn't ready yet, the usual "it isnt you it's me" she mentioned to me a few times she hates dating, before I asked her out so I figured what the **** so I did, what do I do now ???

[Life201]

I’m thinking that if you’re looking to date and she isn’t, there’s not a lot that’s going to change her mind. You can be friends with her, but find someone who really wants to go out with you and move on. Good luck!

[stills_stinks]

move on as if she likes you for real and is ready yu would go out but other wise enjoy the freindship but rember woman do not romanticly date there male friends like us guy can

[Country1969]

Maybe she only wants to be friends with you,because if she gets involved with you and it don't work out your friendship could be over. Not saying it would be,but a chance.

By stating she hates dating, she is covering that issue up.
Or maybe your not her type of man that she is looking for in a relationship. You have to look at it from different point of views.

It's is meant to be it will happen. Do you get to spend time with her by hanging out or anything like that?
If you are, it's like dating without her knowing it. Maybe something will happen between you and her. Just don't push it. Treat her with respect and be there for her when she is down.

It really depends on you, do you really like her? Do you want to give up on her just for not going out with you on a date?

Also,like

stills_stinks said: enjoy the freindship but remember women do not romanticly date there male friends like us guy can

Believe me, he's right. I've been there before. I fell for my female friend about 8 years ago and I told her that I loved her. She told me that we were best friends and that's the way it should stay. Lost contact with her since that night. She was going thru problems back then also. But I think our friendship is still there but lost for now.

Good Luck,
Don't give up,stay strong.