Your worst date?

[HeavenLeigh]

Describe your worst date.......

[Sexy Strawberry]

I think it was the previous to meeting my boyfriend, I met this German in Carnival, Björn was his name. He was cute and we had a date. He was friendly but veeery shy and had a nervous laugh the whole time that I disliked. I don't know how... in the end of the date we kissed very passionately and it was ok, I just felt like having fun with men without any feelings (and I was happy because I had finally found someone with whom I could be without feeling anything, I know it was weird, but I was tired of disappointments). The next date was a few days later, when I saw him I just thought "oh my God, what have I done, I don't like this guy at all and the thought of kissing him again just disgusts me" so I almost ignored him, I was kind of ashamed and he realized I didn't want to see him again, I think that was the worst date because I was very uncomfortable the whole time. It's not that exceptional but that was it.

[HeavenLeigh]

:lol: I have been there and done that too SS. You think "what the H&LL was I thinking?!!!"

Mine happend when I was 15.....I think....it's been so long ago :D
I was at my cousin's house in Ohio. My parents had visited and left me there because her parents were due to come to our house the following week. She ranted, raved, and begged me to go out with "A nice guy" that she was friends with. Okay, I was young and dumb so I was game.
He pulls up in this convertable and honked---no let me rephrase that---layed on the darned horn until I came out. He was head banging to the song "Me so horny" (that should have been a BIG RED FLAG....but again, I was dumb) and off I went.
He drove for a few blocks-- still in a residential area and would drive down the block and then back up the block slowing to an almost stop in front of this house. Not saying a word. Finally I was like "Is this your house?".....he was beginning to creep me out. Nope, he drove off. Asked me if I were hungry and thought we could "grab a bite" Okay, this was more like it. We drove for a few blocks----still in a residential area-----to his house. He went in, came back out with a bucket and declared that he was going to wash his car :huh: Then he handed me some scratch off lotto tickets and pointed to a BP or Texaco sign a block over and told me to cash those in and get him a sandwich or something and if I got something to pay for my own and bring his change back. :rolleyes: Yeah right. I cashed the tickets in, called my cousin, and we went and had dinner on him.
The house we were stopping in front of was his ex-girlfriends, I found out later.

[IUgrad02]

hahahaah!!!! Krysti! That story cracked me up so much that I read it outloud to DH. hahahaha! What an A-hole! ;)

My worst date was just kind of silly, but nothing too crazy.

It was my first date with DH. We were 16 and 18. I had written him some random note, and he realized I liked him, so he stopped me in the hallway at school and asked me if I wanted to go get lunch with him after school let out (we had a half day that day). But, he had to be back to school for swim practice at 3pm. So we had to hurry. So, our first date was going to be at Wendy's. Woo! yeah, so we went outside to the parking lot, and he was nervous as all get out. I had a nice new car that my dad got from working at Chrysler. DH had a POS truck that someone in the family had owned since the year 1885. Well, he felt like he should drive anyway, and I could have cared less what we drove b/c I was so enamored with him, so we got in. Of course, it didn't start. He tried about ten times. He was sooo embarrassed to finally ask if we could drive my car. He felt like a total moron. But I could have cared less... hey- I was out with Mr. Popular Senior hottie! (In my opinion!) So, we got in the car, and when we got there, I ordered nothing b/c I was too nervous to eat; then we wandered around the mall aimlessly afterward b/c there wasn't enough time to do anything else. He said nothing the whole date b/c he can be SO shy, and I talked his ear off b/c I'm overly boisterous when I'm compensating for nerves. We both ended the date awkwardly b/c it was too early to kiss, etc, but we both leaned over to grab something in the car, and he thought I was trying to move in for the kiss (I wasn't THAT forward!) so he kinda did too thinking that was what I wanted, but (he says ) he ended up slamming his head into my forehead. :eek: I do NOT remember it that way- I was floating in a daze b/c I was soooo in love with him. But, he swears he made a total fool of himself. I went home and called my friend jenna, saying , "Well, he's sure to think I'm a loser. That date was awful. I was a babbling fool, and he didn't say a word to me. We went to freaking Wendy's and I couldn't even get myself to choke down a frosty. He for sure thinks I'm a ridiculous idiot." She was like , "Aww, maybe it wasn't as bad as you think!"

Well, I guess it wasn't as bad as we both thought. That was almost nine years ago now, and we are still as in love as ever!!!! :heart: It was a crappy first date, but I wouldn't have had it any other way.

[HeavenLeigh]

LOL! You both thought you made fools of yourself :D How cute! :lol: about the 1885 truck......that had to be embarrassing :eek:

My uncle is retired from Chrysler and my cousin and her hub still work there. They live in West Carrollton Ohio.....you near there?

[Sydneyp]

I'd finally decided to quit waiting around for the jackass I loved to love me back. I decided to look in the personals (back before the internet was used much) thinking of it like looking for a job - until I find the right one, I can practice (interview) with a bunch. I called a few, one called back...brief conversation, set up a date.

Met at a restaurant - I cannot remember what he said, or did...he was so indescript - but I do remember that he was wearing an acid washed (way too late for that, it wasn't 1987!) jean jacket with a fake lambswool collar - and it was grimy. Eww. Best foot forward? Also, he was going a bit bald, which is fine, except he had an overgrown buzz cut and looked a lot like a brown q-tip.

Guy I loved who didn't love me back paged me in the middle of dinner. He'd had a car accident 2 hours away - could I pick him up? I made my excuses and left.

If only I'd been having a good time on the date, or if the guy had been remotely interesting. I spent another 3 years with/not with guy #1.

[IUgrad02]

Krysti- I'm not sure where that is in Ohio-- I grew up near Kokomo IN where there is a Chrysler plant- my dad worked at that one...... :nod:

Yeah, we made fools of ourselves, but evidently it worked! :lol:

[HeavenLeigh]

:lol: Sydney........the first part of your post reminded me of that older song "She never cried" by Confrederate Railroad. Remember that one?
Kinda makes ya wonder what happend to Mr. brown Qtip. And it really sucks to love someone when they don't love you back......I've been down that road more than once. Makes you feel like there's something wrong with you until you finally open your eyes and realize all the fault lies with them.

Oh.......I forgot you're from IN! W. Carrollton is right outside of Dayton. I know it takes about 15 minutes to get to Dayton mall and around 45 minutes to Kings Island from their house. Speaking of Kinds Island........I might let Darek skip school one Friday and take him there before it gets cold.

[Sydneyp]

Oy! I do wonder what happened to the Q-tip guy.

I'm a bit odd - I always knew there was something wrong with him, not me - never went through that "what's wrong with me" thing - though I've seen it and it's not pretty. The whole deal hurt plenty, anyway. I wouldn't have met my current b/f (5 years now) if it hadn't been for guy who didn't love me, so something good came of it. (I suspected he'd found a 'girlfriend' and knew he'd gotten a computer and was spending time in a chatroom - so I stalked him. I met my b/f, and guy who didn't love me flew to Canada to meet his dreamgirl and they got on so badly they never spoke again. HA HA HA.)

How about the worst non-date?

My High School Boyfriend and I have always kept in touch. I moved, he moved, I dated, he pined (how weird is that?) He was shy, and nice, and BORING and a 'doctor who?' fan - which is the straw that broke this camel's back.
Anyhow, when he'd come into town, he'd call and we'd usually do something - dinner, movie, rollerskating - but he'd always bring his 7 year old niece. Now, I like kids fine, and it's not like I was looking for action, but his niece was a handful, and (thank god we never had kids together) he was completely lame when it came to dealing with her.

We once took her to see some kids' movie (I can't remember which.) The whole drive she kept saying how she didn't want to see the one we were seeing, she wanted to see another one (not good for 7 yo.) After 5 or 6 times, I said, "David and I are seeing X, if you don't want to see it, that's fine - we'll take you home." But weenie boy wouldn't back it up, and I spent 2 hours listening to bratface yap about seeing a different movie.

Thank god we never had kids together.

OK - so the next time he came into town, he rang up. I said I'd like to do something, but why didn't he come over and I'd fix dinner and we'd watch some movies on the VCR.

I didn't want to spend time with his niece, I figured this would be the way to go.

This non-date lasted 8 hours! And remember, he was BORING. When we finished eating, I sat on my (normal, 3 cushion) sofa. He sat thigh-to-thigh with me. I pretended to check something in the kitchen, and when I came back, I sat on the opposite side of the sofa. He pretended to go pee, came back and sat thigh to thigh with me. I pretended to go look at......(this goes on for 4 hours.)

In the end, after two hours of stretching and yawning and mentioning that I had to work the next day, I said, "Well, it's been nice to see you, but I have to go to bed NOW. Call me the next time you're in town." I basically kissed him on the cheek (he tried to move his head to kiss me, but I was faster than him) and shoved him out the door.

31 days later, I recieved an invitation to his wedding in TX. The wedding was in 14 days. In retrospect, I think he was just making sure - that we were done (hello! It had been 10 years!) and that this new girl was the 'one.'

That was longest non-date of my life - and I couldn't be mean, he's a nice guy!